Teach Kids, Not To Fear But To Respect Boundaries

Purpose, Boundaries, and the Lessons My Childhood Taught Me When I was young, my dad always seemed impatient with my docile nature. He had a common phrase he often repeated: "Step your feet hard on the floor!" What he meant was, Show some strength! Be resilient! Have some personality! But looking back, I sometimes wonder—how do you expect someone to have resilience when you raised them in a way that never required them to build it? I grew up in a full house. Aside from my immediate family, we often had over seven extra people living with us, making our household at least 13 people strong at any given time. My parents had five children, but in a strange way, we were never really allowed to do anything for ourselves. At nine years old, I was still being bathed, we all were, from my 11 year old brother down to my 6 year old sister. Even brushing my own teeth wasn’t something I was responsible for—there were always house helps to do everything. The Turning Point I think one of ...